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Of Friends and Acquaintances…

Last night when I was done with my attempts of exploring the world of blogging, I sent e-mails to my friends about my current obsession with blogs and writing. withing 30 mins of shooting the e-mails I saw few gtalk windows popping up requesting me to change the privacy settings of my blog to Public for them to view.  Wow! And this is why I need my friends to be there for me. Thanks Susanta for guiding me how to do it.

This morning I woke up with a lot of excitement to check on the activity level on my blog. I received 41 visits in a matter of 12 hours, to celebrate I made special Spinach and Cheese Omelet for breakfast to treat myself. Little joys of life which friends give you.

Sushmita of http://bloomsnpetals.blogspot.com wrote a very encouraging message and officially welcomed me to the family. Sushmita and I have a very long history. We were flatmates in Bangalore (2006) and bonded very well during the stay. A strongly rooted person, Sush (as we all call her) has taught me to never get swayed away with temptations that life throws at you.

Talking about friends and acquaintances, who wouldn’t want to have people in their lives to either count on, hang out or have good times overall. Desouza’s (My elementary and both High School) Dipty has a very strong presence and impact. We were best of buddies, would compete for higher class rankings, do all the high schoolgirlish and teenage stuff, she taught me to loosen up and have fun in life.

Law School gave me zillions of friends and acquaintanceship but it was Saloni who left her footprints in my heart. Sal was madness and craziness personified. Brown eyes, typically bollywoodish,  girlish gossip, super hyper, extremely loving and giving in short Sal meant fun and life to me. Sadly I don’t have that fun and life any more, I lost Sal in 2006 and when I close my eyes and think of her, I see an angelic face smiling at me and saying “Moti tu tension maat le mein hoon na” (Fatso, Don’t worry am looking out for you). Thanks Sal for being the sister I never had.

My campus life (the place where my Dad worked) had an amazing group of kids, out of all Nanis and Bhainas (Oriya for Didis and Bhaiyas and the Indian way of addressing seniors of the same generation) I fondly remember Rinku Nani and Mamina Nani as my strong connections with my childhood. Incredibly strong women and amazing moms they have inspired me to not to lose out myself in the crowd and to the fast pace of our lives. With them I am the same Ginu (that’s what I’m fondly called at home) they knew.

My work took me to many cities in India and I have adored all the experiences. All the friends, acquaintances and colleagues I made and had had in many ways helped me evolve. Raj (Quislex) in Hyderabad instilled strong work ethics in me, Prashant, Sonia, Prathima, Karthik and others (Lawcomm Solicitors) of Bangalore made me fall in love with my work. Manish Lamba (Airtel) Delhi took me under his wings, Neil, Mahesh, Bhushan, Sara (Rely Services Inc.) Pune and Chicago, honed my business acumen, salesmanship, negotiations, networking skills and budgeting and still learning. Ain’t I incredibly fortunate?

I have an amazing set of parents and siblings in the family I am born to and married into.  Each of them in their unique ways have helped me transit gradually to be a better person each day. And to the friend I married to brings out the best and worst of me with each passing moments.

Lastly to Jean and Melissa my spiritual healers and for tuning me with myself and taught me to make friends with myself so that I’ll never be alone. πŸ™‚

Photo Credit: Google Images


About ANK

Cultivating the art of β€˜intelligent’ listening, sifting the grain from the chaff, counseling, negotiating and writing/drafting is what I do for a living. Sharing a smile, standing up for loved ones, fighting for the right cause and living life to the fullest is what I'm doing this LIFE!.


9 thoughts on “Of Friends and Acquaintances…

  1. “god moves in a mysterious way “… again na… this is the either way he takes our care and keeps us always thrilled and makes us feel warmth…

    Annu,… nice post… (thanks to that almighty,… hey helloo… u there up… :)… thanks)

    Posted by bhargav | June 29, 2011, 2:39 AM
  2. O Ginu, I just read this post and I am so touched. I am lucky to have such wonderful ppl as my childhood connection.

    Posted by Reshma | May 3, 2011, 12:32 PM
  3. Sahi hai! Love your blog, especially this post!

    Keep it up!


    Posted by Hetal DOSHI | February 22, 2011, 10:22 AM
  4. This is so beautifully written.. and a small thanx for those sweet words for me here as well as at bloomsNpetals…. keep writing.. and keep smiling

    Posted by Sushmita | February 19, 2011, 2:54 PM
  5. Hey, welcome to the world of blogging πŸ™‚ In no time you will be hooked into it, blog-hopping, blogging and making new virtual friends. Its a great feeling of kinship which grows between blog buddies – totally different from any other sort of net pal.

    Here’s hoping to see many more of your posts πŸ™‚

    A few suggestions – why don’t you give a tile to the blog e.g. “Rourkela to Raleigh Lane” instead of the present one.

    Do add more widgets to dress up your blog πŸ™‚

    Posted by debosmita | February 18, 2011, 10:41 PM
    • Debosmita,

      Thank you for reading, supporting and suggesting. I truly appreciate this coming from a pro. I liked what you suggested and will do so. Widgets, still getting a hang of it. I still haven’t been able to insatll wordpress :D.

      Keep supporting and this will get me going a long way.


      Posted by rourkelatoraleighlane | February 18, 2011, 10:50 PM

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